Thought development and the ability to make a business of your own

From my personal experience I have tried to sell, sell and sell on Facebook but with no luck. I didn’t even realize just how connected I was to Facebook to where even every thought was connected. One thing I learned over time that the best thing to do was honestly distance yourself from social media like Facebook as it can become toxic for yourself too.

Although I have a small number of people on here I am actually a lot happier selling through WordPress and cults. Most of my money comes from Cults3d at the moment but am hoping to get this going as well. Independence is a very big deal especially when you make your own business.

Do not ever rely on social media to do your hard labor for you. I am realizing this now as I begin to develop my work on my own. Your fans will come to you if you put in the labor.


In times of high stress and anxiety

In a world where everything is thrown at you at once without even having the ability to sink or swim, you may be stuck in some sort of never land. Not sure of the future, feeling like your entire life is nothing but a struggle.

You are riddled with student debt, no good paying job or struggles with opening up a career. I like to tell you my story because it really helps you to understand where you might be. The issue is not being able to do something, but it’s actually not knowing how to do it. Not knowing how to actually swim in a world full of sharks. No guidance from that school that they forced you into for 12 years and never even got guidance of how cruel people can really be. It’s a shocking twist of events for sure.

We are living in some extreme times where a lot of times we may not be able to manage. But I’m here to tell you you can manage and not only manage but you can thrive! Forget the social norms and forget trying to have someone make you happy! Focus on yourself and being the best person you can be. Imagine the entire world as just one giant canvas of plains and realize it is your world to spread your energy over.


The truth behind the entire Life Coach/Pick up artist situation

If you are a young man or woman in their early to mid 20’s then you are probably aware of these types of people on youtube who pass themselves off as these older more experienced life coaches who know absolutely everything about the opposite sex. They will tell you the followin:

– I have been doing this for more than 30 years

-I am an expert

-I have dated thousands and thousands of women

– I know all about “women” or for women coaches “men”

-I am dating 6-7 girls in rotation as we speak

etc etc

I can go on with a list but I think these are the best for understanding red flags. These videos have gotten popular due to the validations they give for their audience. They read their audience perfectly and understand them at a deep level. They even use words like “incel” as a way to describe and stereotype who exactly watches the videos. They will come off as your best friend saying guys this is the absolute truth and I’m the only one telling you this. But the more you watch their videos, the more you begin to analyze the way they talk and just how many of these types of videos they post and just the way they discuss ad nauseam.

The thing to understand is that they have a kernel of truth in their videos that they will expand to a new level because that kernel of truth is what gets you to trust them.Yes you should:

-Value yourself

-Develop your own work

-Work on being content alone

But everything else is not necessary. What gets them validation is that they love it when they stereotype heavily against the opposite sex and in the comments there will be an emotional response by someone whether it is a man or a woman. And what it comes down to is they love it because it lets them say, “look at those damn feminazis battling my gospel truth, you see, they are persecuting me for my honest truth!”

Why, you may ask, are they doing this? A few reasons

1: They need to make money and survive.

2: Life coaching is an industry just like the legal industry, the alcohol industry, the tobacco industry. INDUSTRY INDUSTRY INDUSTRY REMEMBER THIS WORD INDUSTRY.

3: They can get an audience by targeting your most personal insecurities, usually involving sexual attraction and perhaps not having as many sex partners.

4: Validation is also another one!

In conclusion, this is an era of absolute insanity where people look towards taking your most personal feelings of self worth and monetizing on them. It’s not surprising to me anymore that we have a very right wing government now. But for the people who are reading this I believe it is very important for me to allow you to know this situation. The rule to life is simple.

The more negativity you create in life the more it will come back, the more positivity you create the more it comes back. Life is a back and forth game of positive and negative which are constantly battling with each other. It’s ok to be single and never be afraid to be alone!